We have some thoughts.
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Scenario:You get an invite for a Thanksgiving potluck with new friends.
Is that really…okay?
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The Simply Recipes editors weigh in below.
Never Ever Ever Charge Your Potluck Guests
You shouldnevercharge someone to come to a potluck.
Nope, never, absolutely not.
And those who can’t cook or don’t have the time?
Or something pre-made from the grocery store.
The host typically provides the space to gather, a dish or two, and maybe an extra fork.
So what could the host possibly need the cash for?
The couple extra rolls of toilet paper they needed to stock up on?
Unless you’re hosting a potluck for charity, asking people for cash smells like a scam.
Ordinarily, you shouldneverexpect guests you invite to your house to pay.
A hosts contribution is providing a comfortable location to gather and whatever else they choose to pony up.
Heres the caveatalso hownotto lose friends and fall off the family will.
Your guests should be informed that a monetary contribution is requested when they receive their invitation.
Be clear about what the funds will be used for.
Renting extra tables and chairs?
Calling in back-up singers for your post-dinner performance?
Ordering an extra turkey?
Something as simple as, We are collecting funds.
If you’re free to, kindly contribute.
Then, let your guests decide if and how much to contribute.
They may choose not to accept your invitationthe choice is theirs.
Then, graciously invite them through your front door even if they didnt pay up.
