Here are a few things to keep in mind when attending your first iftar gathering.

So the menu can vary from family to family.

But there are a few things you should know before attending your first iftar.

People sitting around a table for Eid

Simply Recipes / John Robinson

There is no flexibility with that.

So be on time, and not fashionably late.

Remember that many Muslims eschew alcohol and pork, so steer clear of bringing those as gifts.

Ingredients in bowls to make Authentic Cretan salad.

Lori Rice

But you’re able to also wait for them to break their fast before you eat and drink.

Talk to other Muslims about their rituals, and do as much research as you could.

Upon their return, the feasting begins.

Stone fruit and vegetable salad in a serving bowl with a linen underneath.

Alison Bickel

That can vary from culture to culture.

So do ask your host before you go for iftar if they plan to do that.

That way, you will have a clear start and end time to your iftar party.

weck juice jars

Sheela Prakash

Respect their choices, and dont pry.

As long as you dont come with any presumptions, you will have the best evening.

Ramadan is a time of sharing dishes, bringing people together, and breaking bread together.

Chicken Recipe in Skillet with Smoked Paprika – woman’s hands adding chopped vegetables to skillet with chicken

Alison Conklin and Alison Bickel

Lastly: dont forget to enjoy the meal, and help to reset the table!

Lamb Stew Recipe - pot of lamb stew with ladle

Sally Vargas